A little secret: Remember yesterday I mentioned that I was “flying into Paris” to have lunch with three blogger friends?
Guess what? You were there.
Yes, you were. I’ll explain.
The four of us: Vicki Archer, Sharon Santoni, Carla Coulson and I sat outside on a terrace. There were heaters to keep us warm, but the sun was brilliant and the city sparkled in that exquisite only in Paris spring sort of way. To say we had a marvelous time would be an understatement. We talked for hours and as we reluctantly parted we were already making plans for our next meeting.
We talked about everything from our families, children and dogs to our projects, hopes for the future and yes, our blogs. As you know, Sharon, Vicki and Carla are enormously talented and creative women who every day give us the gift of la joie de vivre on their blogs. (Isn’t it interesting that “joy” is feminine in French?)
It is this very strange cyber world that has brought us all together — the four of us and you. We talked about how much we appreciate your taking the time to not only read what we write, but also to comment, to participate, to extend the conversation. This is yet another aspect of that extraordinary mostly woman-to-woman exchange that enriches our lives and we’re very grateful.
As I drove home from Paris late in the afternoon all I could think was how buoyantly happy I was after those few hours with women who are kind, generous, supportive and encouraging. We spent our time together talking about what we plan to do in the days, months and years ahead, how we need to have “projects” however one may describe the concept. Some of ours are broadly similar, others completely surprising. I’m sure you have similar hopes, which is what projects are after all, for now and later.
What was so extraordinary was a “you go girl” ambience that permeated everyone’s enthusiasm for what each of us hopes to do. Ideas were exchanged, excited encouragement reigned and each of us was genuinely pleased for what the others have accomplished and wish to accomplish.
There is a great deal of talk in the media these days about women reinventing themselves. Somehow I think our reinvention is our natural evolution. As we learn more about ourselves and discover our passions we may veer in different directions. What do you think?
|No one had dessert, but our coffees were accompanied with little cookies. When we were lost in conversation, two bold sparrows joined us at table and began nibbling on the cookies. Very Paris. Very sweet.|
One thing I do know. This blog and everything that has grown out of it has saved my life in more ways than you will ever know and for that I will be eternally grateful.
Have you reinvented yourself? Do you follow your passions?
* Lunch with Girlfriends in Paris.
** Just a momentary break from travel packing to share a conversation.